selfish vs inconsiderate....r they the same? to me--NO.
i define selfish as one who knows CLEARLY all options,all pro and cons are layed in front of the person, and yet one choses to make the decision that benefits HIMSELF the most.
Inconsiderate,on the other hand, means one who make decision whithout clearly knowing (or reminded of) all possible options,and made choices that might offended people,unconciously.This fella, might not think deep enough.that's why the words are put together:IN-CONSIDERATE = CONSIDER-NOT-ENOUGH)
Both selfish and inconsiderate people might made same decisions (or took same actions..),but they did it with different intention....one is self-centered; the other-lack of thoughts...
If you kindly point out facts,options,pros n cons to an ''inconsederate'' person, he might change his choice.
So,try not to judge people as ''selfish'' just because they made a ''not-so-good'' choice,they might jsut be ''inconsiderate'',try to take an ''kindly explain'' move, things might just get better.
i define selfish as one who knows CLEARLY all options,all pro and cons are layed in front of the person, and yet one choses to make the decision that benefits HIMSELF the most.
Inconsiderate,on the other hand, means one who make decision whithout clearly knowing (or reminded of) all possible options,and made choices that might offended people,unconciously.This fella, might not think deep enough.that's why the words are put together:IN-CONSIDERATE = CONSIDER-NOT-ENOUGH)
Both selfish and inconsiderate people might made same decisions (or took same actions..),but they did it with different intention....one is self-centered; the other-lack of thoughts...
If you kindly point out facts,options,pros n cons to an ''inconsederate'' person, he might change his choice.
So,try not to judge people as ''selfish'' just because they made a ''not-so-good'' choice,they might jsut be ''inconsiderate'',try to take an ''kindly explain'' move, things might just get better.
1 comment:
hmm.. i agree what u said. but u made inconsiderate sound a bit like careless in ur definition.
anyway, good tot. keep it up gal!
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